I have been following some of the new chat shows and reality shows for some time on the recommendation of my friends here and back home. I will be the first one to admit that I am one of those who dig their womanly claws in crazy on your face shows. But over time, as I see these shows they just don't register anymore. I mean the violence and anger and bad mouthing people. It seems not only pedestrian but also mundane now. This has led me to think about all the violent video games and action/horror movie which show blood and gore to the maximum. We are so well conditioned to all the unpleasantness and death that the suffering in real life just does not register well into our conscience. I wonder why though.
Mother Theresa once said that she cannot see the suffering of the millions of people in the world but of the people she sees around her at an individual level. If that is true about the human nature, it would be sad indeed; as it would mean that every person needs to suffer each kind of tragedy on a personal level to really evoke any emotion in them. That would make the already suffering world truly unbearable.
I think true horror or terror in a situation is when the threat persists. Everyone can fight and counteract the demons one can see and confront. How can one fight that which is invisible? For example you can fight a direct threat or comment, but how do you fight a rumor? That will be one's downfall in time and also one's undoing.
As I said before the allure and disgust registers deepest with the most subtle provocations. Humans are intelligent beings. Even the dumbest one, given the time, follows the same path of metal destruction; if only given a mere hint of threat. Maybe I am alone in thinking that subtle is good. It also allows you to understand the impact of the more severe possibilities in life (both good and bad) in a better relief. But I think the television people think that life is banal and they are exciting. How wrong can one get? I believe that every one has to create their own subtleties and drama in the same time slot.
On a side track I think that is also the problem with our horror industry. They either need to commit to blood and gore or the undying indirect threats. They unfortunately commit to neither! And the commercial breaks...............Nothing kills pain and death and everything scary like an "idea jo badal de zindagi"!!!
Thursday, 25 November 2010
Tuesday, 16 November 2010
An Inspired Post
I know writing a blog is about expressing what ones feels strongly about or rather what one wants to share with the rest of the world (if there is anyone reading). I just read an entry in one of the many blogs I follow from fellow friends. He wrote something about being discreet about sex and how sex gave him a thread to connect to God (his God). It was funny that when I was reading the post , I just kept thinking of orgasms. More specifically women orgasms or a lack thereof.
Not many of us them talk about "that thing" very often but whenever we do I noticed how many of us just skip on the details. As if it either never happened or they just don't think it was important. They would moan about the kisses and flowers and wines and all the other paraphernalia for hours and hours. But when it comes to the actual act of copulation, if you will, they are uncharacteristically shy about it. Why is that? Is it because they are embarrassed? I think not, otherwise they will not be so vocal about the kissing and eagerness for the 'event' (for want to a better word). Or is it because they do not know what is good quality 'event' and simply gloss over it to save face?
What I fell is that a few of us do not know what an orgasm feels like. Quite a few of us know what it is, but have them few and far between to count for any significant statistics. They are like orgasm virgins (no pun intended). Have they never masturbated? Its not something unheard of and it is not like it is wrong or unhealthy despite what people will tell you.
Maybe I am holding the wrong end of the stick. Maybe either men do not know or do not care about their women having fun. Either situation is very serious and should be remedied. If they don't know; please women, tell them. They are not trained in these things most of the time. You have to tell them what you want. It means you care and also once you start having fun it will be even more pleasurable for the guy. Its like a job well done. If it is the latter then dump him. He is not worth the effort, time and emotions. I really wish the women I know shed their blanket of embarrassment and just get on with it. They are amazing individuals, their openness will only add to their lure and not diminish it. One does not need to be brazen about it. There is romance in subtlety. (More on subtlety later)
Attachment of any kind should be nurturing, whether passionate or emotional. They can be a vent for the unexpressed emotions in a crazy night of lust or it can be the mode of waking up of feelings long dead. They should help you live better. They should change something at a hormonal level, emotional level or even spiritual level (if you are into that) about you. It should make you better. It can be applied to any and every relationship in one's life. Friends, family, lover, soulmate. Anyone and everyone should make you someone better for you. If not then it is not worth doing or being in. I do not believe in a higher purpose (till i turn 40) in life. I think no one in this world should stand other person's shit to make that person better for the society. It is one's own job and not yours.
I am going on a tangent now. But As I said women need to have more frequent orgasms. They should have as much fun tumbling in the bed as the men they tumble with as everyone has a right to happiness and good sex!
Not many of us them talk about "that thing" very often but whenever we do I noticed how many of us just skip on the details. As if it either never happened or they just don't think it was important. They would moan about the kisses and flowers and wines and all the other paraphernalia for hours and hours. But when it comes to the actual act of copulation, if you will, they are uncharacteristically shy about it. Why is that? Is it because they are embarrassed? I think not, otherwise they will not be so vocal about the kissing and eagerness for the 'event' (for want to a better word). Or is it because they do not know what is good quality 'event' and simply gloss over it to save face?
What I fell is that a few of us do not know what an orgasm feels like. Quite a few of us know what it is, but have them few and far between to count for any significant statistics. They are like orgasm virgins (no pun intended). Have they never masturbated? Its not something unheard of and it is not like it is wrong or unhealthy despite what people will tell you.
Maybe I am holding the wrong end of the stick. Maybe either men do not know or do not care about their women having fun. Either situation is very serious and should be remedied. If they don't know; please women, tell them. They are not trained in these things most of the time. You have to tell them what you want. It means you care and also once you start having fun it will be even more pleasurable for the guy. Its like a job well done. If it is the latter then dump him. He is not worth the effort, time and emotions. I really wish the women I know shed their blanket of embarrassment and just get on with it. They are amazing individuals, their openness will only add to their lure and not diminish it. One does not need to be brazen about it. There is romance in subtlety. (More on subtlety later)
Attachment of any kind should be nurturing, whether passionate or emotional. They can be a vent for the unexpressed emotions in a crazy night of lust or it can be the mode of waking up of feelings long dead. They should help you live better. They should change something at a hormonal level, emotional level or even spiritual level (if you are into that) about you. It should make you better. It can be applied to any and every relationship in one's life. Friends, family, lover, soulmate. Anyone and everyone should make you someone better for you. If not then it is not worth doing or being in. I do not believe in a higher purpose (till i turn 40) in life. I think no one in this world should stand other person's shit to make that person better for the society. It is one's own job and not yours.
I am going on a tangent now. But As I said women need to have more frequent orgasms. They should have as much fun tumbling in the bed as the men they tumble with as everyone has a right to happiness and good sex!
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