An Inspired Post

I know writing a blog is about expressing what ones feels strongly about or rather what one wants to share with the rest of the world (if there is anyone reading). I just read an entry in one of the many blogs I follow from fellow friends. He wrote something about being discreet about sex and how sex gave him a thread to connect to God (his God). It was funny that when I was reading the post , I just kept thinking of orgasms. More specifically women orgasms or a lack thereof.

Not many of us them talk about "that thing" very often but whenever we do I noticed how many of us just skip on the details. As if it either never happened or they just don't think it was important. They would moan about the kisses and flowers and wines and all the other paraphernalia for hours and hours. But when it comes to the actual act of copulation, if you will, they are uncharacteristically shy about it. Why is that? Is it because they are embarrassed? I think not, otherwise they will not be so vocal about the kissing and eagerness for the 'event' (for want to a better word). Or is it because they do not know what is good quality 'event' and simply gloss over it to save face?

What I fell is that a few of us do not know what an orgasm feels like. Quite a few of us know what it is, but have them few and far between to count for any significant statistics. They are like orgasm virgins (no pun intended). Have they never masturbated? Its not something unheard of and it is not like it is wrong or unhealthy despite what people will tell you.

Maybe I am holding the wrong end of the stick. Maybe either men do not know or do not care about their women having fun. Either situation is very serious and should be remedied. If they don't know; please women, tell them. They are not trained in these things most of the time. You have to tell them what you want. It means you care and also once you start having fun it will be even more pleasurable for the guy. Its like a job well done. If it is the latter then dump him. He is not worth the effort, time and emotions. I really wish the women I know shed their blanket of embarrassment and just get on with it. They are amazing individuals, their openness will only add to their lure and not diminish it. One does not need to be brazen about it. There is romance in subtlety. (More on subtlety later)

Attachment of any kind should be nurturing, whether passionate or emotional. They can be a vent for the unexpressed emotions in a crazy night of lust or it can be the mode of waking up of feelings long dead. They should help you live better. They should change something at a hormonal level, emotional level or even spiritual level (if you are into that) about you. It should make you better. It can be applied to any and every relationship in one's life. Friends, family, lover, soulmate. Anyone and everyone should make you someone better for you. If not then it is not worth doing or being in. I do not believe in a higher purpose (till i turn 40) in life. I think no one in this world should stand other person's shit to make that person better for the society. It is one's own job and not yours.

I am going on a tangent now. But As I said women need to have more frequent orgasms. They should have as much fun tumbling in the bed as the men they tumble with as everyone has a right to happiness and good sex!